tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post929221809156648764..comments2024-03-26T18:36:53.183+05:30Comments on Shaivi ka funda: Why not first? Shaivihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-9166696900316499882013-04-09T20:03:08.137+05:302013-04-09T20:03:08.137+05:30Acha likha h apne...bhot wajib bat h ye..
Esi hi h...Acha likha h apne...bhot wajib bat h ye..<br />Esi hi h duniya...bilkul swarthi si...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14233375832772222705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-50766165360485160262013-04-08T15:26:42.738+05:302013-04-08T15:26:42.738+05:30nice one nice one The Mukhtiarshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17820859098668959132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-27070619871862558082013-04-08T10:38:09.224+05:302013-04-08T10:38:09.224+05:30Thanks RajeshThanks RajeshShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-52521526831979430062013-04-08T10:37:23.785+05:302013-04-08T10:37:23.785+05:30Thanks. Yes the unnecessary stress is bugging.
Wel...Thanks. Yes the unnecessary stress is bugging.<br />Welcome to my blog!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-53072762634962455102013-04-08T10:36:19.003+05:302013-04-08T10:36:19.003+05:30Yep. Got ur point! Thanks! I just hope the bias re...Yep. Got ur point! Thanks! I just hope the bias reduces...we all need to take some time off and enjoy wat v have!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-135096035771087592013-04-08T10:21:52.064+05:302013-04-08T10:21:52.064+05:30Very good analysis.Very good analysis.Rajeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10325697671806865458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-14384053819322700842013-04-08T07:55:19.974+05:302013-04-08T07:55:19.974+05:30For me participation and giving 100 % is more impo...For me participation and giving 100 % is more important rather than winning. I was just trying to give you an idea that this biased nature of human being towards no 1 and no 2 is going on from the past centuries when Lord was present and in front of him and this will go on. Vishal Rathodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15364692809486387555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-51198582235302445032013-04-07T20:50:26.878+05:302013-04-07T20:50:26.878+05:30Very well said. These things start from home which...Very well said. These things start from home which is the first school. The stress which parents impose on us to the best in everything is unbearable. I am 27 and still running in the rat race. I want to be content and happy in my life rather being obsessed with success.My parents still expect me to be top and compare me with every tom dick and harry. The feeling is really unbearable. RAN IN JAN https://www.blogger.com/profile/09930714780995208578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-63760223774887070662013-04-07T19:52:25.443+05:302013-04-07T19:52:25.443+05:30Yep! Thanks Nisha!Yep! Thanks Nisha!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-7535679792280531052013-04-07T19:50:36.470+05:302013-04-07T19:50:36.470+05:30I will say the same what some of the commenters ha...I will say the same what some of the commenters have said here. <br />Top position isn't forever. <br />And don't be a part of rat race because even if you win it, you will still be a rat. :) Nishahttp://www.lemonicks.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-40672765215163743282013-04-07T18:06:17.596+05:302013-04-07T18:06:17.596+05:30Yep! ThanksYep! ThanksShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-36325502050542156162013-04-07T18:06:03.375+05:302013-04-07T18:06:03.375+05:30Yep, thats what! ThanksYep, thats what! ThanksShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-47412298225395344582013-04-07T18:05:45.643+05:302013-04-07T18:05:45.643+05:30ThanksThanksShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-73307437898522274552013-04-07T18:05:06.549+05:302013-04-07T18:05:06.549+05:30Thanks. As I have mentioned in the reply to Vishal...Thanks. As I have mentioned in the reply to Vishal, its good to have competition. But it shudn't reach such heights that we burden the participants with unnecessary stress.At the end of the day, we also need to sit back and get a feel good factor about wat v have, coz one cant be at the top alwayz. Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-11507699230795527262013-04-07T18:03:36.168+05:302013-04-07T18:03:36.168+05:30Shaivi, that's a fine piece on the mad race fo...Shaivi, that's a fine piece on the mad race for the top. People always forget two things, however:<br /><br />(1) It tends to get lonely at the top.<br />(2) No one can forever be on the top or the first places. it's against the laws of nature.<br /><br />It would be a lot more beautiful world if we all focused on quality rather than quantity of our efforts.umashankarhttp://uspandey.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-34991667975781858252013-04-07T17:59:43.129+05:302013-04-07T17:59:43.129+05:30ThanksThanksShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-63403481073195763352013-04-07T17:59:24.620+05:302013-04-07T17:59:24.620+05:30Thanks Vishal! While I understand this is an inher...Thanks Vishal! While I understand this is an inherent part of the system and competition is healthy, in the past few years, we have made this race so overhyped that a lot of people, specially kids feel overburdened with stress. My idea is not to do away with the competition, but also appreciate the accomplishments, however, big or small as the small joys is what life is all about.Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-22127678622537365232013-04-07T17:55:19.474+05:302013-04-07T17:55:19.474+05:30Thanks!Thanks!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-14820475607256013602013-04-07T17:54:51.858+05:302013-04-07T17:54:51.858+05:30Thanks Bushra!Thanks Bushra!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-3376257057077083802013-04-07T17:34:46.163+05:302013-04-07T17:34:46.163+05:30It's always a race ... and no one seems to kno...It's always a race ... and no one seems to know why. Why not stop the race, stand, rest a little and enjoy the beauty around?Tomichan Matheikalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05037872309096060126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-63282509968168935242013-04-07T15:40:58.925+05:302013-04-07T15:40:58.925+05:30Our life is full of mad races, unfortunately, we i...Our life is full of mad races, unfortunately, we induct into it our children too. Nice, thought-stirring write.Easwar Arumugamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03666080983931141711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-21828329273110163522013-04-07T15:33:27.263+05:302013-04-07T15:33:27.263+05:30i beg to differ here completely with all of u .......i beg to differ here completely with all of u .... either promote no competition at all....but if u promote competition , its only the best who deserves applauds ...only then the other participants would realize when they are there they be the best .. runner - up is a consoling prize- koi baat nahi beta ... agli baar !! but the moment 1 gets praised for being 2nd or 3rd .. we kill his/her zeal to reach new highs!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-79833091284445002422013-04-07T15:32:23.016+05:302013-04-07T15:32:23.016+05:30i beg to differ here completely with all of u .......i beg to differ here completely with all of u .... either promote no competition at all....but if u promote competition , its only the best who deserves applauds ...only then the other participants would realize when they are there they be the best .. runner - up is a consoling prize- koi baat nahi beta ... agli baar !! but the moment 1 gets praised for being 2nd or 3rd .. we kill his/her zeal to reach new highs!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-17420524030187538552013-04-07T14:05:41.955+05:302013-04-07T14:05:41.955+05:30Even the winner in a ratrace is just a rat. :-)Even the winner in a ratrace is just a rat. :-)Satheesh Sadanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15719978968924801648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-53399564503063426032013-04-07T13:33:12.340+05:302013-04-07T13:33:12.340+05:30So true, we never even give credits to the ones wh...So true, we never even give credits to the ones who come 'second'. Always being the second ranker in school, and 'second' or 'third' in almost everything, people's reaction always disheartened me, so i can understand the post very well.Rose Essencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05986753941246656779noreply@blogger.com