tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post7000934910999904133..comments2024-03-26T18:36:53.183+05:30Comments on Shaivi ka funda: To, the angel who blessed me...Shaivihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-58759205357238592742015-05-11T14:51:56.134+05:302015-05-11T14:51:56.134+05:30Shaivi, first a warm hug from someone you don'...Shaivi, first a warm hug from someone you don't know but is a mother never the less. I could feel both the warmth of loving memories and also the pain of your loss. Both are precious, for they are a part of the human experience we call life. You have written a beautiful tribute to your mother, really touching . In being the person you are today, because of her teachings that contributed to your growth as a person, you pay her the biggest homage for you are what she intended you to become. I'm sure you consider yourself lucky for having had her in your life for whatever time she was there. Follow her example and become the mother to your own children the way she was to you . Love and blessings.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04953079720309648261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-65157246907600612002013-01-12T13:07:59.386+05:302013-01-12T13:07:59.386+05:30Hey Rohan,
Sorry to hear abt ur dad...its must hav...Hey Rohan,<br />Sorry to hear abt ur dad...its must have been tough for u to at 13 as I knw how tough it was for me to lose mom at 26. The departed are freed from any relation or "Moh Maya" as they say. But wen someone who means so much leaves, u cant help bt remember the good times & miss that person. Even I didnt cry publicly wen mom left me. The house was sudenly swarming with relatives who were otherwise opportunist & mean. But it hurt wen they asked me & my sis to stay away as per religious views, a dead person shouldn't take any material/physical contribution frm a married daughter as its a "karz" on him for his next birth. I was like wat the ***...bt then, the loss was already done. She was gone & it didnt mattered who did wat formality. So I just kissed my mom's forehead & stood by her side till the flames took her in their arms....<br />I like the statement "after death,a dead ant and dead relative are same and it won't be same if you are expecting more from the dead man." & its weird why social obligations force us to often interact wth people who are in the "dead relations" cattegory.<br />ThanksShaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-71650832043982127082013-01-12T12:36:22.314+05:302013-01-12T12:36:22.314+05:30its logical that we are more attatched to either f...its logical that we are more attatched to either father or mother cuz we are attatched to them from the day we are born and inter-dependence.<br /> when it comes to affection ,if you are a true person the magnitude of affection and feelings don't change with time.i was 13yr old when my dad expired and i din't cry when everyone around me were crying,i had regular smile on my face on that day too.everyone thought am a bad guy and i don't like my dad.actually i was more close to my dad than anyone else.according to me,showing affection means understanding the person and doing things for that person when he/she is alive based on righteous life.<br /><br />after death,a dead ant and dead relative are same and it won't be same if you are expecting more from the dead man.<br /><br />i could not save my dad when he died in sleep with cardiac arrest cuz i was just 13 and my wisdom and knowledge of science were immature.today ,my affection can save my family from death cuz i have grown up with ultimate wisdom and it can almost save people from dying cuz i can keep all my effort/affection to save a person.at the end of the day,i don't want to see dead bodies and people crying.rohannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-48091534721575219482013-01-11T18:53:53.860+05:302013-01-11T18:53:53.860+05:30@Sam's playground - Thanks Samarpita...U r rig...@Sam's playground - Thanks Samarpita...U r right. It indeed was painful to remember those memories & I broke down many times while writing this blog.<br />Its painful but life goes on...and u learn to wear a perennial plastic smile as not everyone understands the underlyng pain...<br />Many hugs to u as well..."blogsister"...:)<br />Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-68064084873998957092013-01-11T18:28:20.260+05:302013-01-11T18:28:20.260+05:30Beautiful tribute.
Nobody can replace a mother, n...Beautiful tribute. <br />Nobody can replace a mother, nobody. Even living away from her is so painful for me, I can only imagine how you felt while writing this post.<br /><br />We don't know each other, but from one daughter to another, huggggggs. Tight, tight huggg. Samarpita Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14838347282093738170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-75598419230005205002013-01-09T13:48:08.799+05:302013-01-09T13:48:08.799+05:30Thanks Debajyoti! I was missing mom soooo much y&#...Thanks Debajyoti! I was missing mom soooo much y'day...then thought this the best way to express my feelingz for her. Thanks for appreciating!Shaivihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11860737840467816127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3920754667576349961.post-9820018043916294802013-01-09T06:28:22.998+05:302013-01-09T06:28:22.998+05:30that's such a lovely lovely tribute to your mo...that's such a lovely lovely tribute to your mother!! i could feel the emotions in this post.debajyotihttp://factsandnonsense.comnoreply@blogger.com