Friday, 17 May 2013

Ideas ideas everywhere, no time to blog



I had often read bloggers cribbing about blogger’s block – after the initial shower of posts and page views, the rigour suddenly takes a backseat. And not because of any specific reason but just like that. Just like the decline phase in the product life cycle, the blogger stops having those amazing ideas or the enthusiasm to check page views or post something frequently. The usual remedy is to give it some time. Bloggers usually take a well deserved break from the pressure of posting and saving their blogging ranks & once back, they usually start with introspective/philosophical posts.

But it isn't blogger’s block that is eating away my blogging frequency. It is the good old excuse (and in my case, truly genuine one) – lack of time.

Having jumped into the blogging arena only a couple of months ago, blogging still runs around in my system and gives me a high. Lectures, exams, submissions, mood swings, so far nothing has been able to hold me away from posting my ideas on my blog. The mind still brims with loads of ideas, and the evidence can be found on the umpteen “to do’s” on my smart phone and laptop.  Yet, since I have returned to Delhi, Miss blogging often complains to Mr. mind – “you don’t have time for me.”


One option was to comfort Miss blogging by posting some pictures or quotes, but that wouldn’t have justified the purpose of me getting into blogging.

So, I decided to think aloud about what’s affecting my blogging frequency –

1. The blogging seat – Believe it or not, but its true. In college, my desk next to the window with a scenic view of the Aravallis got out the best of my creativity. Back to the concrete jungles of Delhi, my dedicated writing space has gone.

2. Cooking – The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Very true, but the same way also takes you away from the “me time”.  No, I am not being a lazy wife & Mr. Hubby knows this. But when at home, I find myself more in kitchen than anywhere else.

3.  Being the social butterfly – I once read on author Preeti Shenoy’s blog that one has to sacrifice social life to make it up for the love of writing. I still don’t completely agree but the recent family weddings, outings, chit chats, gossip sessions and get togethers have got me to somewhat think about it.

4.  Spending the quality time – Now this one’s the most important. Recently Mr. Hubby got bitten by the Watsapp bug (and I have a full post dedicated to this in pipeline). Though I am not that fussy a wife, whenever I find him glued to his Watsapp or Discovery Turbo, I make the most innocent face & crib that he has no time for me. And poor thing gives in to my draamebaazee! But he is no innocent thing anymore, coz he has now found a way to get back at me. Whenever he sees me glued to my laptop (which often is the moment I have just began work on a new post), he too, makes that same innocent face (though with a dash of sarcastic naughtiness!) and says “U have no time for me, I meees u”. My own weapon used against me!

No matter how much I crib, I can’t live without blogging. While wrapping up at work yesterday, the optimistic me planned the rest of the evening my way & resolved to write a post every alternate day.  Even though an unexpected guest & the elaborate menu played spoilsport, the moral refuses to go down. And here I am, back to my blog!
Thats my computer calling me to blog!

16 comments:

  1. Good one Shaivi. Looking forward to the watsapp post.

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    1. Thanks! U will soon see that post...:)

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  2. Ha ha :D i was really missing u Shaivi dear, was wondering why you are not posting, but this post sounds like an apt explanation ;)

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  3. blogging is an addiction !! Good to see you back in the bar :D .. Cheers!!

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    1. Yes it is indeed an addiction...rather for me, something beyond it..my own shouting ground where I am the queen & I set my own rules! Haha! Thanks..:)

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  4. Good one...and welcome back...!!!

    i must give you a suggestion...your indiblogger rank is showing NA so you can raise a complaint and get it sorted...if you want to be...!!!

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    1. Thanks Anjan! I thought I hadn't posted for 15 days thats why they removed my rank.. Thanks for the suggestion, I will contact them rightaway, coz my Indiblogger rank matters to me...:)

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  5. that explains your absence. :)
    The phase will be over soon, not to worry!

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  6. Very true! I love blogging but most of the times I find it hard blogging among other works.Just as you said, cooking makes up the whole morning and the rest follows. And one day I keep commenting and visiting my blogger friends at full fledge and many days I vanish. Hmm, what else can I grumble in a comment :P

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  7. ...and that explains your absence... now you made this post interesting with one of the lovely phases of life and I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.. Great going, dear.. :)

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