We all begin our
lives like a white board – clean and clear. As we grow up, we dream of making
it big. The grind we endure in academic years is to ensure freedom to earn and
do whatever we want without having to look up to anyone. Till one day, we are
on our own. Own money, own life, freedom that we had always yearned for. “Wow”,
we say, “The party has begun”
Our greedy mind
wants more, and there are no free lunches in this world. So we work extra,
strive to succeed, get that extra share of pie. The days extend into nights and
we become so busy with “just getting it right” that we forget why it all began.
To be happy! And happiness no money can buy. It comes from within, triggered by
the small joys of life.
The grass is
greener on the other side. When we are young and have the small joys at our
disposal, we ask for bigger, better. And when we get that bigger, better, we
realize that the innocent, sweet fruit of happiness lay hidden in those small
joys we once had.
As it happens with
anybody at the start of his/career, I, in my first job was at my workaholic
best. I would stretch to limits that would surprise my bosses, would eat, sleep
and think about my job. My office began to see more of me than my family did. I
would enter home just in time for dinner and doze off. Then, one day my mother asked
me “Why have you decided to work?” “So that I can be independent & do what
I want”. I said. “But are you really getting time to do what you really like
doing? How many books have you finished in the last 2 months?” That got me
thinking. The rut of life was pulling me inside like a whirlpool, and I was not
even realizing it. But when you are 20, all that seems right is big, better and
beautiful & so I forgot her words the next morning & happily gave in to
the busy bee syndrome.
Many years have
passed since this dialogue. Mom & I never spoke again about it. Now, she is
no more. I am doing well for myself. But when I see myself not getting time to
blog, despite my mind bubbling with ideas, I wonder what’s wrong. Everything
technically right happens in life, but suddenly you find yourself hard pressed
with time for the people you love and the things you love to do…the reason why
it all began…and then you wonder….
As I write, I
recall the scene from “Rock On” where Farhan Akhtar turns off his system just
in time to be with his rock band!
The lesson, I have
learnt is that sky is the limit to ambitions. But one should always give
priority to the people one loves & the things one enjoys doing. Coz it is
what you love that brings happiness inside…and only if you are happy, you can
enjoy any luxury money can buy…
hi shaivi,
ReplyDeletewhats that picture?meditation?hmm i think it depends on people and vary person to person how they balance personal and professional life.when it comes to me,am the same 2yr old kid ,i din't change over years.its good to be kid when we are not serious.
More than the balance I think its about reclaiming the simple joys of life.
ReplyDeleteyou know life is not just about priorities...it's about balancing things out...suppose you love to write...then you must have time for blogging after all your work...if you leave your work for your hobbies(i am calling it a hobby) then you might feel you are not going in the right direction with your career...but if you focus too much with your work...you know this phrase would be applicable "All work n no play makes you dull,lazy and grey"
ReplyDeleteSo one must learn to balance things out...!!!